Could "kiss in" protests change India?

Driving down Mumbai’s Marine Drive, an onlooker might be confused by the number of rainbow-coloured umbrellas perched on benches along the seafront, seemingly enjoying the ocean breeze. A closer inspection reveals, however, that they are all propped up by the tangled limbs of young lovers, seeking privacy behind their brollies.

Marine Drive is famous for attracting couples looking for a spot far from their family homes where they can relax without attracting attention. Yet kissing in public remains unacceptable almost everywhere in India. “Kiss-in” protests late last year were a signal that the nation is in the throes of social upheaval—and some conservative norms won’t survive this generation, at least in the big cities. The demonstrations began in October when a local news channel broadcast footage of a young couple kissing in a café in Calicut, Kerala. In no time a Hindu nationalist youth organisation linked to the ruling Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) had raided the property, in an act of intervention widely referred to as “moral policing.” The incident triggered the “Kiss of Love” movement—with the first kissathon on Kochi’s own Marine Drive—where young people met and smooched en masse. The campaign’s Facebook page now has over 150,000 “likes.”

Ira Trivedi, author of India in Love: Marriage and Sexuality in the 21st century, says the campaign is part of a wider shift in which a new generation wants more freedom in areas from sex to marriage. “It’s about a fundamental change we’re going through as a society,” she told me. “There is also a backlash because the change is happening so fast.”

Discussions about repression in India quickly descend into the same observations about how this is the home of the Kama Sutra, and one look at ancient Indian art makes it clear that raunchy romance isn’t a western import. But in modern India, repression is an everyday reality.

Right-wing religious groups have long taken it upon themselves to uphold what they see as traditional Indian values. Every year on Valentine’s Day there is talk of the Shiv Sena, a sometimes militant organisation that shares the BJP’s Hindu nationalist views and has in the past attacked restaurants, shops and florists celebrating the holiday in Mumbai. There are also stories about local police arresting couples for being openly amorous. The issue lies in one ambiguous clause of India’s penal code, which says “any obscene act” in a public place can justify a fine or imprisonment.